I'm not one to wish away a year or a month for that
matter. The older I get the more I appreciate the value in each day. Having
said that, it has been a whirlwind six months and I am glad that is over. As
displaced and inconvenient as our summer of camping was... it was also as
romantic a summer as I could have hope for, for all of us.
Where to start? I guess you don't really need to know all the details of
our summer in transition. It went fast and furious. We visited our storage
locker on several occasions to return items we thought we needed and hunt down
new ones we didn’t know we would need. We broke a bike but came away with both
pets intact. We learned to appreciate access to basic necessities like a bath,
stove and washer/dryer. We got used to being on top of one another, which
essentially made the new place feel a lot bigger. The kids made several friends
and I learned to relax and let go a bit.
Personally, the whole summer became a revelation to me. I let go of a
lot of personal issues and shed many of my uptight ways. I started to become
really comfortable in my own skin and appreciate the small things. I don’t know
if this was a result of our lifestyle change, which felt like coming “home” to
me. Or maybe I am just getting older and I don’t care as much about filling
other peoples expectations of me.
The move was messy but fast and uncomplicated. We did get it all done in
time to get the kids school and for me to start my new semester of classes. We’ve
been living in the space with the furniture and things we decided to keep.
Everything fits for now but it is not necessarily the best use of our space. We
plan to slowly change out pieces of furniture that will make life here a little
more functional but for now there is a lot more stability and tranquility than
we have had since the kids first came into our life. Things look good and we
are excited to take on the small challenges that will make it all feel like our
home.
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